Custody Evidence Checklist
Strong evidence is dated, organized, and easy to verify. This checklist helps you collect only what matters and label it so the story is clear. Educational only - not legal advice.
Core categories to gather
- Parenting time & exchanges: dates/times/locations, delays, cancellations, make-up time attempts.
- Communication excerpts: only the few messages that prove a point (preserve originals).
- School records: attendance, notes, schedules, relevant communications.
- Medical/therapy summaries (if relevant): keep it minimal and redact sensitive identifiers.
- Calendar/logs: a clean custody timeline and logs for repeated issues.
Labeling system (so you don’t drown)
Recommended naming convention: YYYY-MM-DD_topic_source_exhibit.ext Examples: 2025-10-03_exchange_latepickup_message_exhibitA.png 2025-09-12_schedule_change_talkingparents_exhibitB.pdf 2025-10-01_school_absence_attendance_exhibitC.pdf
The goal is “anyone can open this folder and instantly understand what each file is.”
What to avoid
- Hundreds of screenshots without dates or context.
- Personal attacks or emotional rants (hurts credibility).
- Irrelevant history not tied to child well-being or logistics.
- Edited/altered screenshots (preserve originals).
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Disclaimer: MyCustodyCoach is not a law firm and does not provide legal advice. Information is for educational purposes only. For legal advice, consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.