What do courts usually evaluate in relocation (move-away) cases?

Factors vary by state, but commonly include the child’s stability, school/community ties, feasibility of maintaining parenting time, the reason for the move, and the proposed plan’s practicality.

How should I write my request (or response) so it stays credible?

Use dated facts, a clear plan, and child-focused outcomes. Avoid labels and motive guessing. Courts tend to trust concrete logistics more than emotional arguments.

Is this legal advice?

No. MyCustodyCoach is not a law firm and does not provide legal advice. This is educational guidance; confirm your state’s requirements with official court resources or licensed counsel.

Custody Relocation (Move‑Away) Requests

Relocation cases are high-stakes and state-specific. This page is a calm checklist for what to prepare and how to write in a child‑focused way that’s easy for a judge/evaluator to follow. Educational only — not legal advice.

The credibility rule

The strongest relocation writing is usually logistics + stability: a specific plan, a clear child routine, and proof that you’re thinking about maintaining relationships and reducing disruption (when safe).

What to prepare (fast)

Current schedule summary (typical week + holidays)
School/childcare plan in the new location
Housing stability plan (address details per your safety needs)
Support network (family help, childcare, transportation)
A proposed updated parenting plan (detailed)

What judges dislike

Vague plans (“we’ll figure it out”)
Missing travel/cost details
Attacks and speculation instead of dated facts
No plan for school breaks / summer / long-distance time

A simple structure to copy

Child outcome goal: stability (school, routines, healthcare, support).
Move reason (short): factual and verifiable.
Plan details: schedule, travel, costs, communication, holidays/summers.
Proof: school/childcare/housing/work documentation where relevant.
Good-faith options: alternatives to reduce disruption.

Want MCC to organize your relocation packet?

MyCustodyCoach can help you turn messages, dates, and documents into a calm, child‑focused draft and exhibit list you can review and edit.

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Trusted starting points (official)

USA.gov — State courts:
https://www.usa.gov/state-courts

Last reviewed: 2026-01-15. Disclaimer: MyCustodyCoach is not a law firm and does not provide legal advice. Information is for educational purposes only.