What evidence matters most for parenting time enforcement?

Dated logs that match the order terms, neutral proof (messages, app exports, calendars), and a clear pattern summary. Focus on what happened and when, not motives or labels.

How should I write about violations so it stays credible?

Use dates, specifics, and child impact. Avoid insults, diagnoses, or speculation. Close with a practical remedy that reduces future conflict.

Is this legal advice?

No. MyCustodyCoach is not a law firm and does not provide legal advice. Enforcement procedures vary by state and county; verify with official court resources or licensed counsel.

Enforce Parenting Time (Contempt): What to Prepare

This page is for “contempt of parenting time” and “enforce custody order” panic searches. It gives you a calm, evidence-first checklist for documenting violations and writing in a way that stays credible. Educational only — not legal advice.

The enforcement rule

Enforcement writing is strongest when it’s order → date → violation → proof → remedy. Courts generally can’t enforce vague complaints; they can enforce specific missed exchanges that match order terms.

What to log (each incident)

Planned exchange (per order) vs what occurred
Date/time/location
Child impact (if relevant and factual)
Proof reference (message/app export/calendar)
What you did next (neutral)

Pattern summary (courts like this)

Counts: # denied exchanges / # late returns
Date range: start/end
Average delay (if applicable)
2–3 examples with exhibits (not 50 pages)

Want MCC to build your log + exhibit list?

MyCustodyCoach can help you turn messages and dates into a clean timeline, an incident log, and a calm draft you can review and edit.

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Trusted starting points (official)

USA.gov — State courts:
https://www.usa.gov/state-courts

Last reviewed: 2026-01-15. Disclaimer: MyCustodyCoach is not a law firm and does not provide legal advice. Information is for educational purposes only.