How to Respond to CFI / Custody Evaluator Questions (Evidence‑First)
Panic-search reality: you don’t need perfect wording — you need structure. Use this framework to answer questions with calm, dated facts tied to child outcomes. Educational only — not legal advice.
The 3-part answer formula
- One-sentence claim: “My child needs consistent school routines and predictable exchanges.”
- Dated facts: “From 2025‑09‑01 to 2025‑10‑15, there were 6 late pickups (avg 22 minutes)…”
- Child impact + solution: “This caused missed tutoring; I propose exchanges at school with 24‑hour confirmation.”
Common question types
- “Describe your child’s routine.”
- “What concerns do you have?”
- “How do you communicate with the other parent?”
- “How do you support school/medical needs?”
- “What changes are you requesting and why?”
What to bring (if allowed)
- A one-page timeline of key dates
- A monthly summary of missed/late exchanges
- School/medical highlights (not a dump)
- 3–5 key exhibits with labels and dates
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Get StartedLast reviewed: 2026-01-15. Disclaimer: MyCustodyCoach is not a law firm and does not provide legal advice. Information is for educational purposes only. Always follow evaluator instructions and your court’s current rules.