Working With a Custody Lawyer
If you’re considering hiring counsel (or you already have a lawyer), your best advantage is showing up prepared: calm timeline, labeled evidence, and clear goals. Educational only — not legal advice.
What lawyers usually need from you (fast)
- A one-page summary: what happened, what you want next, and what the current order says.
- A short timeline with key dates and events.
- A small, labeled evidence set (not 200 screenshots).
- Your constraints: work schedule, transportation, school schedule, and what the child needs for stability.
Consultation prep (simple)
- Pick your top 3 goals (child-focused, practical).
- Bring the last order/filing and any upcoming deadlines.
- Bring your timeline + a labeled evidence sample.
- Write your questions down so you don’t freeze.
Cost-saver rules (billable time killers)
- Don’t forward long message threads without context.
- Don’t mix 10 issues in one email — keep topics separated.
- Use dates, not emotions, as your organizing principle.
- Ask how your lawyer prefers evidence delivered (PDF packet, folder, etc.).
Next steps
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